Friday, October 31, 2008
Tuesday, October 28, 2008
Today I had my last hair appointment with my hairdresser, Arlene. She's decided to retire after 35 years of doing hair. Now I have the ultimate chore of finding a new hairdresser that makes my hair look just as good as she did. I'm happy for her to have the opportunity to travel and do all the things she'd like to do as a retiree, but I'm so sad for me (and all of her other clients) who had such fab hair because of her.
Monday, October 20, 2008
Madeline seated up and ready to go to the pumpkin patch! Doesn't she look excited?
Madeline at the pumpkin patch. Isn't she festive in her pumpkin shirt?
This tradition we began for our family always prompts us to talk about when we were kids carving our pumpkins at the kitchen table with our respective families. What great childhood memories we have of carving pumpkins as children, and we hope to instill these same kinds of memories with our children. As usual, Eric chose a very intricate design to carve on his pumpkin while I always do something silly and simple. We stuck with a theme for Madeline, so her pumpkin coordinates with her costume.
The finished products!
Friday, October 17, 2008
Madeline in her most favorite sleeping position!
Wednesday, October 15, 2008
Today, Madeline had her 8 week well check and shots. Technically, she is not eight weeks until Friday, but I'll go ahead and update her second month along with our visit to the doctor's office. She received a clean bill of health from Dr. Kapp. We have quite the proportional little girl.
Her stats:
height: 22.5 in (78%)
Waiting patiently for Dr. Kapp
The shots were not as bad as I thought they were going to be. Her daddy held her arms while she received them, and I didn't get terribly upset. Madeline handled them as expected--lots of crying! Poor baby. However, she settled down rather quickly after she got some snuggles from me. The nurse that gave her the shots was so sweet and emotional, and her eyes welled up with tears when she was done when she saw how upset Madeline was. What a sweet lady, and wow, she must tear up an awful lot working in a pediatrician's office that gives shots on a regular basis!! Unfortunately, it did not help that it was past her 9 am feeding, so her grumpiness continued until we got home to have our mid-morning snack. She was pretty fussy the rest of the day, but I guess that's to be expected. Post shot snuggles with Daddy! (Daddy is in his lounging clothes today because he's a little under the weather, so he took the day off to get some rest and recharge.)
I can't believe she's been in our house for 8 weeks already, and although we are exhausted, it's such an amazing experience. As Eric said the other night, "Madeline sure is fabulous, but she's a lot of work." I don't think I could agree more! Time is flying by, and I say that all the time, but it's amazing to me how fast she's growing and changing. Madeline is quite the morning baby. When I go into her room at 6 am to start her day, she's all smiles. It's so cute--that big gummy grin, and it warms me to know that she's smiling in response to me! I love to talk to her to elicit that adorable little grin, and I hope to get it on camera soon. She loves her swing, and the mobile that is attached to it. The brightly colored fish going around and around just fascinate her all the while the side to side motion lulls her to sleep. She usually takes one of her many naps in the swing, and it's a lifesaver when I want her to be "safe" and happy while I take a quick shower or am running around the house doing chores. Madeline has discovered her hand/fist just this week, and it cracks me up how intently she will stare at it. Her little eyes almost go cross-eyed while she's studying it. It's almost as interesting to her as the ceiling fan in our den. She has great aim when it's time to shove the whole fist into her mouth. Previously, I believe it ended up in her mouth on accident, and now it definitely seems intentional. It's the small things in life that she enjoys. She loves to go on walks, sit on the deck and take in the world around her, lay on her activity mat for short time periods throughout the day, to be read to (I read to her from everything--blogs, picture books, even Glamour magazine! It's the teacher in me!), "spa days" (see post entitled "Spa Days"), and snuggles with her Daddy! I've started to give her small periods of "tummy time" to help with her neck strength. She does pretty well, but I'm not convinced she really loves her "tummy time." She definitely lets me know when she's had enough.
Madeline is on a great schedule, but we are definitely still hoping for that middle of the night feeding to go away. Madeline is eating every 3 hours during the day starting at 6 am. She will eat anywhere from 4 oz. to 6 oz. at one feeding. Every now and again, she'll wolf down 7 or 8 oz., but that's very rare. After her 6 pm feeding, we put her down between 7 and 7:30 for bed, and unfortunately, she still doesn't like to go to bed. We endure anywhere from 10-20 minutes of whimper crying just reminding us that she is not happy to be in the bed. I tell her each night that she's not missing out on anything exciting just grown-up talk! However, she's always fast asleep by 8 pm. Here is when her sleep schedule seems unconventional to me, but it seems to be working, so we'll stick with it. We used to wake her for a 9 pm feeding, but it got more and more difficult to wake her. We called her "coma baby" because she had no interest in waking or even half waking to have a snack. Eventually it was dropped (Only my daughter would drop another feeding before the middle of the night feeding!!), and she sleeps until midnight or at the latest 1 am. She takes a great feeding at that time, and unfortunately doesn't sleep until 6 am. She usually wakes about 4:00 or 4:30 am to eat. This is where it gets tricky because I've established that her day "begins" at 6 am. I hate to disrupt that because we are on such a great daytime schedule that works for BOTH of us, so I hope that in the next couple of weeks I can push her to at least 5:30 am or even better 6 am. So we shall see, but I feel good that we are getting closer and closer to a full five or six hours of sleep. From there, I'm not sure how to stretch her to the 9-10 hour range, but I guess I'll cross that bridge when I get to it. I don't want to get ahead of myself here!
As always, I look forward to what the future holds for us as we embark on this path of parenthood, but I try to savor each moment along the way as Madeline continues to enrich our lives in ways we never thought possible!
Saturday, October 11, 2008
Madeline being a good patient on the doctor's examining table. Notice there are no bright red blotches on her skin!
Friday, October 03, 2008
It is 6:45 AM, and I have only been awake for an hour and forty five minutes!! Yes, that's right, I fed Madeline at midnight, and she didn't wake until 5 AM!
When I heard her "I'm hungry!" whimper-cry over the monitor, I rolled over to check the clock as usual and was stunned that it read 5:01! What???!!! Can this be real?? Surely, I am mistaken. I rubbed my eyes and again looked at the clock. Yes, I saw it correctly. Did I sleep through the 3 AM feeding? Nope not at all! What a glorious feeling to get 4-5 hours of UNINTERRUPTED sleep!!! Meanwhile the "I'm hungry" whimper-cry has turned into the full on "Hello, I'm starving up here! Come feed me!" yell-cry. I jumped out of bed and skipped to her room ready to greet her with a smile on my face feeling refreshed!!
What a week, two successful days at the gym nursery (a post to come on that later with pictures that scream "I am a first time mom!") AND not waking at 3:30 AM to eat!
My new prayer at bedtime: Please, Lord, do not let these 2 major events be a coincidence. Please let them be real and permanent! Amen.
Thursday, October 02, 2008
Well, as I posted last week how well things were going with the new little one [and, Nancy, I still am waiting for that other shoe to drop!! :-)], I wondered how our schedule would be now that I can officially go back to the gym. I say officially because I think technically I was supposed to wait to get clearance from the doctor after my 6 week check-up, but I've never been one to get permission when it comes to my work-outs! So on Wednesday, October 1st, I had my 6 week post delivery check-up, and I received a clean bill of health, and most importantly, Madeline is officially old enough to stay in the Gold's Gym kids care. Now I am ready to get back into pre-baby shape and head to the gym each morning with my little one in tow. I was a little nervous for this for two reasons--
1. After all, leaving my precious cargo with those very nice ladies in the gym kids care is a little unnerving for me. However, they are the sweetest ladies, and they love on Madeline. They cuddle with her, and each time I go in there to pick her up, they tell me how sweet she is and how much they want to take her home with them. YAY! And, when I walk into the room, the same girl always announces, "Yes, my favorite baby is here!" What more could I ask for?
2. How is this going to affect the feeding/sleeping/breastfeeding schedule I worked so hard to establish? How can I get my 2 full hours at the gym and not have to worry about a hungry, screaming, cranky infant in the kids care? Babywise made no mention of this sort of scheduling procedure!! :) And, gasp, what if she's so upset that one of the ladies has to come find me in the gym, and I have to end my work-out early? (I know, super selfish!) So far, I've been able to give Madeline a 9 AM bottle (that way I KNOW she is getting a full meal), pump, and get to the gym by 10 AM! Perfect......so far......
Selfishly, I am a much happier mommy and wife when I get to go to the gym everyday, so this has been weighing heavily on my mind since Madeline was brought home. It's just my thing that lets me relax and recharge.
The last 2 weeks have been successful--I'm getting my full 2 hour work-out, and Madeline is happy as a clam in the kids care. So I'm keeping my fingers crossed that this little change to the "schedule" will continue as they have been. Can things really go this smoothly so quickly and permanently? A girl can hope, right? Maybe just maybe, I can sign up for a spring marathon and begin my training in January 2009 after all, but that's another post for another day.